Hi everyone.. LONG TIME since the last time I blog.
Today I got a very interesting things to tell you.
It happens VERY LONG TIME ago in Africa...
where the Africans catch monkeys.

They will find a large big log, and they make a hole.
A hole that is just right enough for the monkey's hand to put it in.
Inside the hole, they put monkey's favourite food.."PEANUTS"
then those hunters will hide into the bushes and wait..

so after a while, here comes a monkey...
hopping happily to the log where the peanuts are..
stopped and started to sniff....*Sniffing*
The monkey realised there's PEANUTS in the log...
It looked left and right to check if anyone is around him...
ALL CLEAR....
He put ihis hand in to reach the peanuts and grabbed a hand full of peanuts and try to pull it out..
when the monkey got a hand full of peanut, he realised that he cant pull his hands out..
he is STUCKED!!
he started to panic and make noise..(maybe asking for help)
The hunters heard the monkey and walk to the large big log slowly and happily
it's like when someone win in a competition and feeling proud...*feeling like floating in the air*

When the monkey saw the hunters were approaching, he became more panic and try the hardest he can to pull his hand out from the hole, but he can't..
In the end, of course the monkey got caught.

The silly monkey forgot something when he got the hand full of PEANUTS.
He didn't realise that when he is grabbing a full hands of peanuts, his palm become bigger...(like how you show ROCK when you play "scissors paper rock"
If the silly monkey realised that and LET GO of the peanuts, he can escape and didn't get caught.

Sometimes in life, we should learn to let go of something.
even though it is your favourite thing, your dream, your car, person, or peanuts (maybe).
you'll have to let them go.. so you can proceed your life..
If not you'll get trap like the silly monkey.

They say, if you love something, let it go
Of it comes back, it's yours and that's how you know
It's for keep, YEAH, it's for sure
and you'll ready and willing to give it more than......
-Christina Aguilera- sings that.^^

Sometimes it is also how God way to show you His way.
to let you realise something that you didn't even know..
let you wanted to hold on Him more than ever.
i hope this sharing will encourage people that are still holding on something..
release the "PEANUTS" before the HUNTERS come and that time, it'll be too late.

God bless everyone!!

When you were little, and you thought you were the center of everything that happened in your life, there was a pride in your heart. You were brave, you thought you've known everything. When you saw a beautiful vase on the edge of a table, you were captivated. Your parents had warned you about this vase, but you could hardly remember and anyway, you were too little to remember.

You thought, you had to hold that vase, you wanted to play with it, and you were pretty sure you could handle it. So you started to walked with your little feet and since no one was around, you got your confidence. The closer you got to the vase, the more excited you became. And boy, were you happy to feel the cold ceramic feeling of the vase. You giggled and started to touch the vase with both of your little tiny hands. It felt good and new and funny to you so you kept touching, each touch made your smile grew wider.

Soon enough you knew you had to bring the whole vase down so you could hug it, rolled it on the floor, played it with your teddy bear. So you held the vase and pulled the vase off the table, slowly. It's gonna be tough and you knew it, but somehow you kept pulling anyway. You were still laughing half way through, until the vase lost it balance and it was too heavy for you and it shattered right in front of you.

You were overwhelmed by the thundering sound of the broken vase. You were perplexed by the view in front of you, and then you started to realize what had happened. Your vase had gone. You had nothing to be rolled on the floor, or to be played with your teddy. What was so beautiful then had been a chaos in front of you. You moved a little in the hope of good things to happen. Maybe if you moved, you could be happier, you didn't know what to do, so you just walked blindly. Little did you know, the broken vase had shattered and turned into many sharp parts. And you stumped on one of them.

A first hint of pain felt through your right foot. You looked down and saw red water leaked through your toes. You sobbed, but no one heard you. So you cried harder, and still when no one came to save you, you screamed, you wanted help, you regretted all the things you did, you wished the vase was not broken, but you didn't know how so you just cried and cried. Your mom heard you, she rushed to where you were and found you with blood.

She exhaled and came close to you in panic. Between scolds and worried, you cried louder, both because of the pain and because you knew you had done something wrong. You didn't understand what she was yelling or mumbling, but you knew the tone were not friendly. You were really sad because one way or another, you knew she was upset, but she moved you away from the vase, even though you had been struggling to take any part of the vase that you could hold on to.

But she took the sharp part of the vase from your foot and took care of your wound. Your cheeks were red and your eyes were swollen. You couldn't hold your sobs. She left you for a moment and cleaned up the vase. She took it all and threw away the vase. You knew it. You screamed and cried again. She came back to you and hold you tight, whispering some calming words, and said something like, 'I told you not to go near the vase, honey!' and another 'ssh' while panting your head.

You still cried because of the sadness. You didn't know what she was talking about because you were too little to understand. All you knew was, the vase should not had been broken, your foot should not had been wounded, and you should had been happy. She kept calming you. She knew one day you'd understand that it was the right thing to do to throw the vase, to kept you away from the vase. And sure enough, You do understand better now. You wonder how you could have been so stupid to think you could handle a vase that big. And you thanked your mother to help you when you screwed. You look at your foot now and there it is, between your toes, a light scar from the sharp-part of the vase that cut you. You smile. You love that scar, because it brings a memory from your childhood. You touch it, but it doesn't hurt anymore. You've learned your lesson because ever since you got that cut, you were so careful in handling vases.

I believe you guys can learn something from my story above. Sometimes in life, we did irrational, childish things. We thought we knew something, or someone, but we didn't. We ignored our friends' advices, parents' warnings, and even God's signs that tell us not to keep going. Instead we made ourselves believe that those advices and warnings are wrong. We denied God's signs and made up our own signs of approval from God. Then things started to go wrong. We started to realize we were wrong, and they were right. We were left heartbroken, sad, and wounded. But God, as our friends and family did not and will not leave us. They were right there with us, giving us their best support.

And that's how you learn the hard way.

Why am I telling you this boring, usual, nothing-new-to-learn event?

Because I broke my vase. And it really hurts. Only it's not my toes that wounded, but my heart. And I don't want the same thing happen to you. So listen to His voices. Sometimes He uses your friends and family to warn you, to save you from a broken heart. So the vase didn't have to be broken. And your toes wouldn't have to get cut.
People goes into different stages of life since they were born until they died..
Many of my friends are stepping into the reality work life and facing the real world.
A few days ago i heard one of my best friend told me that he decided to step into the next level of his life, the work in the world!!
so i would like to share the "survival kits in life"
that i got it from my college devotions.

The survival kits in life contains:

A piece of puzzle,
Do you remember how to fixed a puzzles?
Everyone is a piece of puzzles that belong to a BIG PICTURE. And not everyone knows what the big picture is and where they(little piece of puzzle) are suppose to be placed.
When people are fixing a puzzle, they always starts with the edges.
Some people are like the edges, they know where they will be going and they will stick with they are doing.
Then they comes to the middle parts of the puzzles, they keep on trying by turning the puzzle pieces around and try to fit with each other. Sometimes in life you just need to turn around to find the place for you until one day you find your position and you'll see the big picture.

Paper Clip,
Paper clip is the connection. In life  you need to have connection with people, families, work mates and other and keep the relationships together. It's like how the paper clip keeps the paper all together.

Rubber Band,
In life, be like a rubber band. You need to STRETCH yourself!! Be flexible, make changes and don't stay constant (the comfort zone),you have to twisted yourself and make different interesting shapes in life.
When you think you have did the BEST, don't stop yet...because you can always stretch a little more.
At the same time, rubber band hold things together too.

Highlighters.
Look into things that you want to highlight in life. Highlight the things that you can do that you want to remember, recall and show up yourself to people. Work hard on it and make it shine. Shows that you are special among the rest of the black and white words around you.

Pin (clothe pin)
People always uses the pin to hangs clothes on the rack so they can dry their clothes under the hot sun. It tells us to hang on whatever you are or will be doing and don give up. Like the pin stays under the sun even thought it is hot. At the end of the day, things will change and it will turn up to be better. You will learn not to quit easily.

Lollipops.
Sweets. See the sweetness of things and look for things that you want to enjoy. Don't do something that your parents want you to do, or your friends said :"it is a good way". Listen to yourself and do what you want and enjoy.

Crayon.
Be creative, think and draw OUTSIDE the LINE...Don't just stay in the brackets. Look into different perspective and make you life colorful!!

The Holy Bible.
This is the most important one among all those stationaries. It is the MANUAL of life. It's your guidance to fight all the evils out there....You'll be like a lost sheep among all the wolves but bare no fears, as the bible says The Lord is your shepherd and He will give you EVERYTHING you need and you will live in the house of the Lord forever. (Psalm 23)
He will show you the way.

Hope this helps you all. thanks..
GBu.

hello everyone,
i just listened to a marriage conference by Joseph Prince  ( famous preacher in Singapore)
it's very sad that there are not a lot of virgins in the world before they get married.
On the other side, the world are always promoting SEX ...
telling them that sex are good... it  makes you get close to each other...
but u know what?? God created sex for human. They are VERY good IF u have them after u are married.
To fellow Girls, dont let the boys to open the present before Christmas!!
Dont allow them to 'see' you before you belong to them.
Dont you think it will be more excited if you got something extra for your marriage??*best marriage gift ever*

anyway, let me tell you a story.*true story*
there's a girl is USA, a virgin, and her friends are always pressuring her and trying to persuade her to have sex...
one day, she gets angry and tell her friends, "you know what? For me to become like you all, i only need ONE night, but for you all to become like me.....NEVER!!"

so virgin people, learn from that girl!!^^

to know more...go
http://www.4shared.com/mp3/Yk-BaUKp/1-01_Track_01.html

spend some time and learn more and have a better life.
GBu all


hello everyone, spend a previous days finishing off my project...
finally i can blog...
i heard a really interesting story about a pig and a cow yesterday while i am sewing...

In Indonesia, they call cow "sapi"??
And one day, a pig walk around in the farm and saw the cow,

he said, ' PI...PI...i am VERY ANGRY!!'
cow said, 'why? what happened?'
pig said , ' you know, i sacrifice EVERY single part of my body for human being, they love my fats, bone, legs, even my skin they used to make crackers. Why they like to use my name to scold people?? like BABI lu, CINA BABI....... Why dont they scold SAPI lu.CINA LEMBU!...?

the cow thinks for a moment and *ting*
she figure out something

and she said, ' i know why!!
you give them what you have when you died, not when you are alive.
It's like you HAVE TO give them and you have no other choice.
Not like me, I give them milk when i'm alive and i feel good giving them what they want.'

-The End-

Lesson:
Do you know about GIVING???
what came up in your mind??
$$??
when we talk about giving, that's not all about $$
it can be support, time, love, effort, sacrifices...........
and many  more...

So.......

Let start GIVING with a free heart,
before it's too late,
don't wait until it's too late,
when we HAVE to give,
then we are forced to give.



One day, there's a women ask a child some question...
if you can get the answer EXACTLY the same as what the child did....
You are very smart!!
Get a paper and write it down...then check with the answer at the end of this blog.


1.What does a cow have four of that I
have only two of?

2.What is in your pants that you have but I
do not have?

3.What starts with a C and ends with a T, is
hairy, oval, delicious and contains thin whitish liquid?

4. What goes in hard and pink then comes out
soft And sticky?

5. What does a man do standing up, a woman
does sitting down and a dog does on three legs?


“Who am I” sort of
questions.

6. You stick your poles inside me. You tie me
down to get me up. I get wet before you do.

7. A finger goes in me. You fiddle with me
when you’re bored. The
best man always has me first.

8. I come in many sizes. When I’m not well, I
drip. When you blow me, you feel good.

9. I have a stiff shaft. My tip penetrates. I
come with a quiver. What is it?

10. What word starts with a ‘F’ and ends in ‘K’
that means lot of heat and excitement?

11. What word starts with a ‘F’ and ends in ‘K’
& if u don’t get it, u have to use ur hand.

12. What is it that all men have one. It’s
longer on some men, than on others,
the pope doesn’t use his and a man gives it to his
wife after they’re married?

13. What part of the man has no bone but has
muscles, has lots of veins, like pumping, & is responsible
for making love ?


Child's answer...
1. legs
2. pockets
3. coconut
4. bubblegum
5. Shake hands
6. Tent
7. Wedding Ring
8. Nose
9. Arrow
10. Firetruck
11. Fork
12. SURNAME
13. HEART


-The End-
Matthew 18:1-6
1At that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked, “Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?”
2He called a little child and had him stand among them. 3And he said: “I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. 4Therefore, whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.
5“And whoever welcomes a little child like this in my name welcomes me. 6But if anyone causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a large millstone hung around his neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea.
DO YOU???
i think most of the people likes to look into the mirror...
including me....hehehe.....
every time when they look into the mirrors,
they'll think that they are not perfect....(sometimes)
that's when little devil pop up around us...
and complaints like im too fat, why i got curly hair,i'm too dark,why i got think eye brow,Why i got small eyes..........why why why????

later on, when they are you tube-ing their favorite stars' video, MTV, series......
they'll go i wish i got legs like SNSD...
i wish i got the lips like Angelina Jolie,.................
These 21 century media are making them thinks that they want to be like the stars....
thats's when another devil popping up....
if this negative thinking continues,they will end up getting mental illness....
how sad is that....

but before we let the devils comes, let's step into the positive side...
think how God value and love us...
no matter how we look like, what size we are...
His love is "EVEN THOUGH love"
example: EVEN THOUGH we are black, He still loves us.
not "BECAUSE love"
example: BECAUSE we are white, so He loves us.
even though we look different, we all got same value....
even though i am black, but i got really white teeth....
even though i am got small eyes, but i got a lovely skin...

so people, do not ever thinks that you look bad...
when you look into the mirror, look at your better part!!^^
be positive, be happy and enjoy life...
stop working hard to be someone else...
be Just the way you are.....

Gb everyone...
night.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vFTnFErJEu4


Two authors of a book “how not to marry the wrong man”, Jennifer Gauvain & Anne Milford, did a research to 1000 women in America and Australia: “What are the reasons they decide to marry their spouse even though they have doubt of its success?” 
Evidently there are 5 reasons that generally to be revealed such as: 

-We have been dating for quite a long time, so I don’t want to waste it.


-I don’t want to live alone again, because I’m used to having a boyfriend.


-Even though I realise the weakness of my boyfriend, but I hope that he might be able to change after we get married.


-We have already sent the wedding invitation, so it will be embarrassing if we have to cancel it. We have also paid the wedding party cost, we don’t want to experience a material big lost


-My boyfriend is a good man, I don’t want to disappoint him by cancelling the wedding.


It’s not surprising at this present time, 40% of the American marriage failed, and 1 out of 3 marriages in Australia ended up in divorce.
So what should be the main reason as a Christian to marry their spouse even though they know that they are not marrying a perfect person?

Genesis 2: 18 (KJV)
(18) And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.

Firstly, Marriage is the only sacrament that was decreed by God in the Garden of Eden before mankind fell into sin. God will be responsible for the marriage he has established. He sees it’s not good that man should be alone. In otherwords, God wants to meet the human’s life becoming a better life through their marriage. So, if God establishes the marriage, undoubtedly, the marriage will be GREAT for sure, because God’s idea will never be wrong and never fail.

Therefore, you have to be sure and have faith that your marriage would be GREAT even though you are not marrying a perfect person and has some weaknesses. Don’t always rely on your spouse, because he or she is limited, but always rely on God who is always able to guarantee that His words will be done exactly as He says. So if your marriage is being focused on His words, your lives will be GREAT and your marriage life will be successful.



Secondly, even though marriage are not Problem Free, God has provided for you comparable helper which is your matched spouse. You have to have faith that your spouse has been created by God to be your comparable helper for you. He or she is not a perfect helper, but it is comparable match with you. It means, his or her weaknesses and strengths are comparable with your weaknesses and strengths as well. So you shouldn’t have to be proud of yourself when you see his or her weaknesses, and it shouldn’t have to become inferior when you see his or her strengths, because your strengths will fill in his or her weaknesses and your weaknesses will be filled in by his or her strengths.

One day there was a wedding party in Cana, Galilee. They had a problem and that they had ran out of their sweet wine. Fortunately, Jesus had been invited to the wedding by the bride and groom, so He could help their difficulty. The bible says, in those Cana wedding, Jesus made his first miracle, which was turning water into wine, so up until the conclusion of the wedding they never ran out of wine. This had proven that Jesus confirmed and blessed the wedding and their marriage.

Today, I hope you have also invited Jesus into your marriage. Therefore, even though your physical eyes do not see it, your eyes of faith know that Jesus is absolutely present at the wedding, because Jesus never changes. 
To be continue.........

by Om Agus

GBU all..
Hi, today in Life Group (bible study group), 
one of our topic is our body!!
every little bits of each part combine and become the smartest animal in earth>>complete HUMAN!!
SO do you know every each single parts of your body is there for a reason?


Of course you'll say yes like brain controls everything, heart pumps your bloods....
normally people know only the Important part but what about the small and "unwanted" parts??
like your NAILS??
why do they grow??
They protect the distal phalanx (the fingertip) and the surrounding soft tissues from injuries.
so your nails are not for you to put on colours and scratching only but they actually act as a shell to protect your tissues.


ARMPIT HAIR!! or Underarm hair 
nightmare for most of the ladies!!
why do they exists? to embarace them??
BIG NO!!
actually, it is there to keep skin dry enough to prevent odor and produce bacteria.
so do you thin people have hair under their arm is smelly?
trust me, those who have no hair smells even worse!!
also the hair provide a natural anti-friction quality between the upper arm and the thorax( our body)


Interesting?
how about your eye brow?
Their main function is to prevent sweat, water, and other debris from falling down into the eye socket.
other than that, they are important for human communication and facial expressions. 
just imagine how do you express yourself with your eyes if you don have eye brow..^^


Last thing i want to mention. 18++
p*b*c hair...
a BIG why again??
they reduces friction during body movement and makes it less likely to get skin irritation.
hahaha....
useful for the future people!!


for more information..
go to find MR. Google...
he'll answer you...^^


-THE END-

Lesson:
Do you sometimes think that you are useless in............
your family? your group? your class? among your friends?
there are always a purpose for your existence. 
figure it out...
it might be a small role, or something people think is useless(but it's not)...
make it perfect!!  
and you'll place into more tough situation for a better purpose.
do the Best and God will do the rest!!

GB everyone.
night.
Back in the old days , people likes to play bloodsports. 
Do you know what is bloodsports? Blood sports is any sports or entertainment that involves violence against animals.These usually involve blood being drawn, and often result in the death of one or more animals. 
Dog fight is one of the POPULAR ones. Many dogs are bred specifically for the strength, attitude, and physical features that would make them better fighting dogs.
Of course there are also a lot of "battle field" where dogs fight and people go and watch and bet on it.
Among all "Dog fight Centre", that's one the most famous ones name " Black & White" that owns by Thrace Spratacus. 
He owns many "Spartan" (that's how he called his dogs) and they are all either BLACK or WHITE.
Every fight, he will put in a white color dog and and black ones.
The interesting part is, he decides which one wins.
He can control which dog wins and the other lose.


One day, a boy realize that and wants to know the secret behind the stage.
he ran up to him and ask him what's the secret to control the winning in the match.
Thrace laugh at him and whisper in the boy's ear : who ever i feed more, it will be the winner!!"


-THE END-


We are like Thrace's 'battle field' and there are always black and white.
the black dog is like the evil side, and that include your laziness, proud, jealousy, selfishness, hatred......... 
on the other hand is the white dog, the good side like kindness, willing to share, sacrifices, ..............

Whoever you feed more, it will defeat the other.
if you feed both black and white, there're still one of them will get more.

In our lives, we can either choose to be black or the white and there are no half-half.
either you let the evil to control you or you do the goods.
so stop feeding the black before it defeats the white.

are you currently feeding the black or the white dog?
change it before it is too late.^^

GB you all.



Hi everyone, do anyone knows Pimples??
today i would like to share something about the pimple.
Do you know sometime when we eat too much fried food and we got like this really big pimple on our nose?

i always got this really big pimple when i am a teenager....
like the really big and red ones.
and always grows on my nose.
just touch it softly, you'll feel like thousand of needle poking on it....

after a while, a small yellow spot will grow out........
that's when they said " you can see the head liao" (sound like giving birth)
my mom always be the DR to help me to squash it...
even i refuse to.....
she just use the metal stick and.....
*press*
PPCeeeT.....the "head" fly out follow with flowing blood.....

that's not the end......
my mom will continue the squashing
cause she says "you need the "poison blood" to come out!! or it wont recover."
sometime it hurts so much i just feel like want to smash someone...
i'll get angry to my  mom sometimes....
but after the suffering squashing process....
the big red dot disappear and it feels very good!!

the lesson behind the story is,
Theres some time in life that we will grow some pimples,
(or we say it bad habits?)

and there will be Doctors that come and help us to squash our pimples.
(giving advice, scold or do something to help you)

and most of the time, we refuse, angry and we just feel like we want to smash them.
(when their words hurts our feelings)

But if we just sit down and let the DR do their job.
(if we listen to their words and do it)

The pain goes away, we feel great and we thank the DR.
(we will get rid of our "PIMPLE" and  stay healthy)

hope everyone get the story...
GB.

hahahaha....indonesia people will say me GR!!!
it means self esteem too high....
anyway...i did a good speech on the wedding today..
Amelia and Lemondhi's wedding,
and i am the best man for the groom!!
it's so happy to listen to the laughter of the audience...
glad to make everyone laugh...
HAHHAHAHHA...
im just happy...^^

and everyone says CONGRATS to the new marriage couple.
GB
Do you have a dream house of you own???
hmmm.... i DO!!!

most of the people will think like fancy style BIG house...
with BIG tv, Big garden,BIG Garage, Huge swimming pool, BIG sofa, BIG bed,....
u know...everything BIG!!

some of them might like to have fantasy house..
with hello kitty stuff everywhere...(example)
or digimon!! pokemon!! manga!! or whatever....

for me....i would like an EMPTY house....
with simple furniture....or some 2nd hand ones will be alright...
but a big tv of course in my living room...
i'll paint the walls by myself or with my family to help me.....with my favorite colour...
thinking of RED but doesn't really fit..maybe a pearl white ...
will be good...
and when time goes by, i'll fill up some pictures, memorable moments....sweet stuff...AWWWW....
some painting from my kids....[one day]
u know...kids sometimes can paint something creative when they do art.
even though they just use random colour and draw that on a piece of blank paper...

very comfortable bed....^^
and of course it will be ALWAYS clean and tidy....
cause i don like dirty housemate...
so i'll train my wife to be clean...and help me to tidy up...haahhaha...

a small garden will be great...
with some herb planted on the backyard....
so i can just grab some if i need it...
u know when u need a pinch of mint when you cook something....
and the dish will taste so different without the little mint flavour in it...
so you will have to buy a whole bunch from Coles
after using that little pinch of mint..you end up putting the rest into the bin..
SUCH A WASTE!!
and u got fresh herbs anytime you want...
it's great isn't it??

hmm...what else??
food!!! i want my house got a lot of food!!!
so i can eat anything anytime!!
yumm yummm yummmm...
good isn't it!!

so far i got it like that..not thinking too much but the important thing is..
every corner i'll spend some time to build it up....
u know??
like you don get a COMPLETE set 1st you move in and EVERYTHING NEW~~~ WOW.....(like what normally people do...)
people will says "you're so lucky...wa...."....."everything new....wa!!!"...."i wish i can be like you...wa...."
for me that's just boring....*yawn*
i would prefer things start to add up one by one after time goes by....
so every corner and every single stuff got a memory in it and it means something to you...
maybe some family time together when we paint the wall together...
buying baking equipment because son's 1st birthday and i want to bake a cake......
a lot many other cool stuff.....
so......begitu LAH....
pretty much a rough idea from me....

night everyone...^^

Some people who hear about my decision not to date till i'm ready for marriage assume that my heart must've broken.
NO!!!!
my heart was broken and was ade new by my Savior.
The change in my attitude was the result of realizing the implication of belonging to Him.
The Son of God (Jesus) died for me!!!
He came to free me from the hopelessness of living for myself.
That had to change everything - including my love life.
Having a girlfriend is no longer my greatest need.
i'm kissing dating goodbye~
because i found something because i found out there's something better in store.

Relationships with the opposite sex can no longer be about "having a good time" or "learning what i want in a relationships."
they're not to be about GETTING BUT GIVING.
Every relationships for a Christian is an opportunity to love another person like God has loved us.
To lay down our desire and do what's in his or her best interest.
To care for him or her even when there's nothing in it for us.
To want that person's purity and holiness because it please God and protect him or her.
Story time!!
just want to share a story to my fellows reader..
Once upon a time......
there's an old man that already work in a building company as a builder for about 40 years..
and one day he decide to take his pension and and retire...
so....he go to his boss...and tell him....
"boss, can i take my pension and retire?"

boss ," alright!! u can retired but u have to finish off this last project to build a house."
Old man, " but i am already 65 years old, can't i just retired??"(angrily)
boss ," just the last project and i promise to let you go."(calmly)
Old man, " Alright, i'll do it."

so the old man went off angrily and go for the project..
while he is building that house,
he didn't do it seriously....
choosing crap materials, not serious.........
he thinks, * this is the last project and i just want it finish ASAP!!!*

so 2 months later, he finish the project and hand in the key to his boss and ask for his pension.
his boss then says he can keep the key because the house is a present for him
and his boss give him his pension.
then he said to himself after he went out from the office,
"IF i know it's mine, i'll choose the BEST materials and put most effort on it"

-The End-

the lesson of the story:
sometimes we do thing for someone either you being force or you're unwillingly,
but at the end, the benefits will come back to yourself.
so NEVER do things not seriously because something that you think it's non of your business,
and you go CIN CAI CIN CAI...you'll regret!!

God bless you people...
have a great day.

i had my longest sleep ever in Sydney so far!!
12 hours....i woke up for 20 min to text for a while and brush my teeth .^^
anyway...i feel like i got the most longest dream i ever have!!
1st one is i a in a bank and the tellers are like asking me about my bank online id number.
and i keep on got wrong and than i forgot!!hahaha....
i just remember i am nervous and not feeling so good!!

2nd is i am in the car with my friends and i saw Miss Evelyn Chiau!!
i think that's because she keep on saying that she wants to come Sydney on her easter break....
she is in a car....(back seat) and i think the chinese that driving is her driver...
then my friend's car stop at the traffic light and she went through so i wave to her...
after that my friend's car catch up and i saw her painting inside the car...
not on a paper but ON the car and i was like thinking....
*hmm...rich ppl really do things like that.*
then POP!!! i woke up....

that's my dream!!
hello, im posting again.
Hmmm...how can i start this thing that i want to say....
ok...it goes like this...

people like this in school:
1. Relax, fooling around and naughty students but is one of the TOP student in class?
2. Study really hard (when in the class and exams is starting soon), both hands holding their head, elbows on the table (like holding their heavy head) and study but still get like SO SO marks.

listen people saying this in the school:
"you're so smart",
"how come you can get this high marks??",
"why i'm so dumb.",
"that guy/girl is so smart."
"they got the whole book in their brain."

did you ever see or hear that before??
i used to be one of them that always stressing out and at the end just can't be bother to do well in the exams, back in old school.
obviously i didn't prepare well/ at all back home.......
and i am wondering why people are so smart that they can get like 100% in the exams. WTHeaven!!
do they eat some kind of herb or vitamin to be smart?or maybe is the salmon fish oil + omega 3 supplements.
Maybe they got super power!!


but lately i found out the secret weapon to be TOP marks in school and let people think you're smart.
Do you think that they are really that 'SMART'??
actually they are a little bit smart but do you know they work really HARD too??
of course if u want 100% u need to work smart too and ++.

Frequently ask question:
-How we going to work smart?

Answer: Double your "work hard" and you will figure it out how to "work smart".
so for you that think you don't know how to work smart yet, this is the solution.
2(work hard) + work hard = HD for your test.

Conclusion is the secret key is work hard!!

If you think that u "DID" your best and still got like SO SO marks, it actually means that you don't work hard enough!!

so people, stop the talking and do something!!
even though i didn't get TOP in school but quite good marks.
people are always saying that and it annoys me sometimes.
cause u know, im no that smart...
hahaha....
before i hands off, plan something and work hard on it.
as the bible says,

Commit your actions to the LORD, and your plans will succeed (Proverbs 16:3).

you need action to succeed, not just talking and acting in front of people.
just want to express my feelings here because i know those people won't see my blog.^^
night every one.
GBu.




http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=4cQvK935TZs
i had this really weird dream last night,
i was in some weird school and we are all having assemble in the hall.
suddenly, the principal talk about Christianity and said it's are evil!!
he said that Christian always hang something on their neck to protect them.
And then everyone just stares at me and i pull out my cross(necklace) and show them.
At the end, everyone starts to attack me...><
then i wake up...
good morning everyone!!