hello everyone...today i got a very interesting topic to share to everyone.
went to a leadership course on Saturday!!had a busy weekend so today i would like to share this.
i just realize this is something that everyone should know and learn to be a leader.(especially guys)
be a leader...for sure everyone will think leader must be a really smart guy, or talented like Steve Jobs, John C.Maxwell.......but that's a NO~~ no no no....
every man is a leader.maybe they are not some big bosses to lead the company,or manager but one day they have to be someone's dad and lead the family.that's one of a leader too!!

as a leader, you need to always need to update and upgrade yourself by learning EVERYTHING you can. the more the better.of course something good to be a good leader. later on, you will be good at problem solving with all the experience and knowledge you got. when your people got problems they need someone that knowledgeable to teach them and lead them to the right path. that's why a leader need to be ready at all time.

just imagine one day when your son ask you something and you can't answer but when he ask uncle A(someone else) and he can answer really well. if this keep on going on do you think your son will obey you or uncle A when they grow up? it'll be uncle A cause uncle A leads him and grows!

in the same time, leaders need to have a vision and the leader need to have a picture in the future. when they got the picture, they know what to do to achieve it. if a leader don't have any vision, it's like a bus driver that brings his passengers and don't know where to go. the driver just drive around and go NOwhere!! and they will end up ZERO~!

leaders need to be integrity.that is to be honest and didn't hide anything.so people will follow the leader.leaders also need to be prioritized.leaders need to do know and do the important ones.so his people don waste time doing those unimportant things.

something more to write but i need a little bit more time.it's kinda late and i need my rest!!><
before i finish chapter 1,got one story for you people.

when you go into your kitchen, you see many knives on the shelf. there's some really sharp ones and some is kinda old and blunt. and then u walk to the fridge and bring out an apple and you wanna cut it into pieces. which knife u will choose?
of course the sharp ones but what if there are only blunt ones. what can you do?

answer: you need to sharpen the knife before you cut the apple.
maybe you are still blunt and cannot be a leader.
you just need to be sharpen to become one.^^

GB!!!!

good morning people!!!
watched movie yesterday morning(Thursday).
entitle "one day"
very good weather, sunny day!!
ready up my excited and sad feelings in the cinema
cause the trailer is really good sad story!!
but it end up not really good...
cause the girl died!!!

u know what is the interesting part??
not the movie but the cinema cause there's only me and another old lady in the cinema.><
it's like in one of the scary movie, an old lady with white face sitting alone in the BACk row with the spot light shines on her....CREEPY!!
anyway...im ok still typing here..
it means she's a normal human being...
too tired to write more...night guys!!
GBu

I rarely have a bad day. A tiring day, yes, a boring day, yes, but not bad. I don't know how to describe a bad day; sometimes even if I hurt myself accidentally, I won't call it a bad day. It's just gonna be: OUCH!! :p

The worst day I've ever had was when I had to end my recent relationship. It hurts (unlike Hell, cos of course, Hell is worse) so bad and I never ever ever ever want to feel that kind of feeling again ever. But even then, now that day seemed to be so far away. I know it was hurt, but I can't quite recall the exact feeling. Maybe because I don't want to. Maybe because I'm strong enough. Or maybe because I've moved on.

I think it's a bit of everything in my case. And the distance does help, it's easier to just shut down your thoughts about something that might hurt you. Anyway, my point is, when you have a 'not very good day' well then try making it a GOOD day. Don't sit around and drowns in your sadness and misery. Sure, I've been there and sometimes it just feels so good to let it all out. But one or two days is enough. No more.

God doesn't want you to become too attach to your past. Neither your family and friends. Whatever it was that happened in the past, or at this moment, have faith that tomorrow will be a better day. Tomorrow is always going to be a better day. And if you think you're not strong enough, then seek for help, whether it's from God or friends. Don't just keep it to yourself.

The most important thing is to keep being positive. The challenge that I face with my broken heart is knowing I won't be with that someone that I love. Knowing he will find someone else and love her just breaks my heart even more and it makes me sad. But you know what? It would make me even sadder if he never find someone else. Because sometimes just because you have the same destination, doesn't mean you have to go with that person through the same path. Sometimes you have your own path, and he has his own too. And in the middle of it, somehow, finally, you'll find a person who can accompany you through that path.

You might think: I don't want another person, I want just this one person, this is the love of my life and so on. But the truth is, you don't really know it's for sure. That's the truth. We stumble upon people who we thought we love, and until that last person came, we always thought the love we had before is the 'real' one.

But it doesn't mean what you had all this time is not real. It was real. It is real. But it's not meant to be.

So, when your day is not a very good day, put on your favorite tv show, eat your favorite food, have ice creams, go to gym, meet some friends, have some fun! Go out! Do something new!! Just don't let your past ruin your moment.

I'm moving out of my bad days. I hope you are too..

hello everyone!!!*waving like a queen*
hahaha...things just flash through my mind again....
just wanna share these song...
The 88 - No one here

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oNeETStJek0&feature=related
this version is much much better.

Katy Perry- The one that got away

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9q-8rvz3LDk&feature=share
and this one.hope there's a MTV for this!!

Pray for me..
cause devil is trying to make me down.
GB u all!!!

today is a super tired day!!
wake up really early and finished everything really late...
got gym got work got school got 2 farewell dinner and 1 birthday party...hahaha..
anyway...while on the way back home after gym...
something happened!!!

there's some mucus in my mouth!!
(disgusting isn't it??)
doesn't feeling so well lately...
might cause of everyone around me is sick.
anyway...i am wondering if u guys is in my situation..what will you do??

-normally people just spit it on the floor.
[my teacher (high school) told me if u spit on the floor and when it dries up, it'll become small particle and spread the virus through the wind.]

-some of them put it in a piece of tissue and throw it in a bin.
[too bad i don't have tissue at the moment]

-swallow it back to your body.
[what i found out from Mr.Google,only a small part of the mucus goes down into the stomach where it gets dissolved. The majority of the mucus gets stuck.]

wanna know what i did just now??
i swallow it...^^
eww...disgusting isn't it??
cause i rather harm myself but not others.
especially my friends, brothers and sisters in Christ, families,
my loved ones.

so if u don have tissue with you in that situation, what will you do??
*sniff*
GB everyone.
and good night.

before i sleep...go check out this website to prevent you to have mucus.^^
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Rid-of-Mucus
stay healthy guys.

YAWN........don normally blog in the morning...
but i was about to blog this last night but i was really sleepy.
so.........yawn....
today i got a story to tell..something comes to me that i have to share this to everyone!!
it's a story about the Mr.Joseph and the EARPHONES!!

Mr.Joseph is a successful designer and he likes to listen to music.especially JAzz...
One day, he went shopping in the mall and as usual he went into an electronic shop.
while his children were shopping for some computer's gadget, he went to the earphones sections.
and he tried each and every earphones that they got.but he realize they are all just normal earphones and similar with his .
after a while, his children done the shopping in that shop and when he was about to go out,
the salesman by the counter called him and offer him the Best Earphone with a special price,
$350 .and the salesman added u won't find this earphone for this price in the other shop.
it's only for you!!
Mr.Joseph said "it's ok" to the salesman but the salesman keep holding him
and wants him to try on the earphones and in the end he tried it.

it was soul lifting!!(good sounding)
he can clearly listen to every instrument and the beatz and everything is perfect!!
as the price is very expensive so he thinks for a while.
in the end, he bought the earphones.
with delightful feelings he put on his new earphones while on the way to work everyday.

after a few days, he realize the new earphones have no much difference with the previous ones.
the sounding is similar and it's normal.
he regretted he spend $350 for the earphones.
so he went home and try the old earphones on and realize the new earphones are actually better.
a few days later, he realize the same thing again so he went home and try the old earphones on and realize the new earphones are actually better.

hi peeps!!it's been some time i didn't update myself!!hahaha...
nothing much change actually...going back to my old routine...
work school and gym....hahahaha....
but something need to be changed...lol...
i'm trying to go gym early in the morning before i go work....
so i got some more spare time to do something else at night..
and i sleep earlier and i can wake up earlier then i go gym....
that's my new plan....sounds like a better routine and it's an effective one...
hope it works!!
just need to stand up and WALK again...
it's been a long time i am stop the routine...since 3 months ago...
fats' been growing all around me...
need stay FIRM!!!have to work really hard on it!!

anyway...the reason i put the title i changed?? is ....
one of my best friend send me a Facebook message telling me he read my blog and tells me that i've changed...
and i think about it....hmmm....what's changing in me??
-was reborn and being a Junior Christ.that's 1 changes.
-knowing what i am going to do now...(has a plan) that's 2
-has been drinking lately.that's 3

that's 3 things i can asnwer if u ask me that question.
at least now i got someOne(Jesus Christ) to depend on....
i can walk through my thorny path with Him guiding me.
it's not an easy road but He will guide me to a bright side..^^

GBu my friend...
i miss you.